I think I've reached zen mode. I'm completely fine with being me. I really don't need fixing, and we shouldn't bother attempting to fix others. As they say, change comes from the inside. I don't think it is actually possible fixing another, as it always seems to be in some romantic chick flick where Mr Perfect comes along and suddenly everything becomes right in the world, i think I've moved away from that childish idealism. Maybe what it really is is somebody you meet who helps you see things clearer, good or bad. Perhaps I am damaged and a little broken, bruised and scratched, but who isn't in life? Everyone has their own cross to carry, their own emotional baggage and do we really recover from it? Time heals all wounds but it does leave scars. So epiphany! Fixing isn't needed, coming to terms that you've fallen down and gotten a new scar is! Don't bother trying to fix people, accepting them for their damaged warped weird sides probably will be a better idea. I'm broken but still functional, power to me hehe.